Working With Clients: Some General Thoughts

One of the best discussions I have heard for account management was by Andrew Sobel. I was digging through some files today and came across some of my notes. I thought I would share a few of my takeaways which I think are good general advice.

  • It is essentially to be trusted.The four attributes of trust that he discussed were Empathy, Generalist, Synthesis, and Integrity.
  • Be an Advisor not an Expert.Experts are afraid to learn anything new.
  • An Expert’s mind believes that there are few options that make sense. A beginner’s mind is open to many options.
  • At 5-years old, we ask about 200 questions per day. By age 20, we only ask about 20 questions a day. Ask more questions. [Reminds me of another piece of advice that said that to “ass-u-me” is to make an “ass out of you and me”.]
  • Perceived competence leads to trust.
  • Empathy means listening, know your own biases, and having humility.
  • Reflection leads to creativity.

He also suggested acting as if you were independently wealthy. [Not always easy, but not worrying about the politics and other issues frees you up to speak your mind.]

He (or his company) laid out the following comparison on their key point which was “Be an Advisor not an Expert”.

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It is easy to play the expert. It is much harder to play the role of advisor.

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